Deeper queer intimacy after trauma that feels joyful instead of terrifying.
Somatic sex coaching for queer women and afab folks based in Denver, Colorado
I’m Danie, your guide through the taboo territories of sexual trauma, religious shame, and pleasure.
So, despite all your healing work, something in you is pulling back from sex and intimacy.
As a Queer Somatic Sexologist and Trauma Specialist, I have to say…
there’s nothing wrong with you. The thing is, your body is still holding the trauma patterns your mind has already analyzed and worked through.
The good news is, your body also has a natural ability to heal and feel good.
We just have to uncover it’s intelligence under the layers of disconnection. This is what I call becoming FERAL.
When you become feral, you can:
feel more safe and present during sex instead of stuck in your head
activate your turn on whenever you want instead of losing your libido
figure out and confidently ask for your desires instead of going with the motions
The Feral Connection Method
1. Relaxation
Feel comfortable in your body using the Body Trust Process to build more safety and openness so you feel more at ease around sex and intimacy.
2. Confidence
Identify and talk about what you like with clarity so you can get what you want and become an amazing lover to your partner(s) with the help of the Expansive Communication Framework.
3. Desire
Learn to express your authentic sexual self without shame so you can reliably turn yourself on without judgement whenever you want
“My partner and I are closer and more in love than we’ve probably ever been. I also learned quite a bit about boundaries, and that its ok to stand up for myself in other relationships in my life.” -M
Deeper Connection with The Feral Effect
Learn the exact body-based frameworks my clients use to turn self-awareness into approachable sexual healing in the limited podcast series.
“The support and safeness you were able to create in our sessions unlocked something in me that was still locked up. I feel so proud, so accomplished, so free and vital and strong. I hope you know I cannot overstate my gratitude for the amount of difference you’ve made in my relationship and my life.” -Z
Ready for a change?
Your next steps are simple
CONNECT
You’ll answer a few questions and schedule a connection call so we can get to know each other and I can understand what type of support you’re looking for.
RECEIVE YOUR INVITATION
If I think we’d be a great fit to work together, we’ll go over details of your own immersion and create a plan to reach your intimacy goals.
ENJOY THE SEX AND INTIMACY OF YOUR WILDEST DREAMS
You’ll build and refine intimacy skills that will change the way you relate to yourself and partner(s) forever.
Connection and pleasure are waiting for you on the other side <3
“You were so welcoming and put me at ease immediately. I really cannot believe how vulnerable I was able to be with you, because I just felt so deeply that you were safe. I really learned a lot.” - A
PODCAST
Sapphic Sexology
A show just for us that explores sapphic dynamics + the nuances of sexual healing without therapy speak.
“This show is so underrated!!!”