Lesbian Somatic Sexologist & Bodyworker
specializing in sexual trauma healing, religious shame recovery, and late bloomer confidence
Supporting LBTQ+ Women, AFAB Folks, and Allies
Based in Denver, Colorado
The Present Sex Roadmap is here ➱
This free pdf shows you how to feel less stuck in your head or dissociated & more present during sex.
I’m Danie Bergstrom
I’m the creator of the Feral Connection Method, and I believe that:
1. Your body naturally has the capacity to heal from trauma and shame, and to access deep feelings of safety, connection, and pleasure.
2.Healing shouldn’t feel like crawling across broken glass all the time- it should feel good too!
3.The way to a happier relationship with your body and sexuality isn’t about pushing or “fixing” you, it’s about creating the conditions for your body’s innate intelligence to come forward.
This is what I call becoming feral: unlearning the patterns that keep you disconnected and relearning your natural capacity for embodiment, eroticism, and genuine expression.
Through the Feral Connection Method™️, we bridge the gap between logically understanding your intimacy struggles and actually reconnecting to pleasure (without rehashing your worst memories or overwhelming your nervous system.)
಄ The Feral Connection Method ಄
the only holistic intimacy framework made for self aware lesbians* that blends consent-based touch, somatic therapy practices and sexuality education for a happier relationship with your body, sexuality and intimacy.
RELAXATION —
Feel comfortable in your body by working with your nervous system to create a sense of relaxation, presence and openness with the Body Trust Process. Understand your triggers and your strengths to gently leave survival mode and come into connection at the pace that’s right for you.
DESIRE —
Learn what you like physically and psychologically by mapping your unique Pleasure Profile. Access pleasure in micro and macro ways and dissolve shame around your body and desires so you can stop performing and reliably turn yourself on without judgement whenever you want.
CONFIDENCE —
Ask for what you want with clarity using the Expansive Communication Framework. Get real time feedback on how your words and presence impacts me so you can notice and shift ingrained relationship patterns, build self confidence, and become a confident lover.
಄ START YOUR FERAL PATH ಄
[ Client Stories ]
“My partner and I are closer and more in love than we’ve probably ever been.
I also learned quite a bit about boundaries, and that its ok to stand up for myself in other relationships in my life.”
“The support and safeness you were able to create in our sessions unlocked something in me that was still locked up.
I feel so proud, so accomplished, so free and vital and strong. I hope you know I cannot overstate my gratitude for the amount of difference you’ve made in my relationship and my life.”
“You were so welcoming and put me at ease immediately.
I really cannot believe how vulnerable I was able to be with you, because I just felt so deeply that you were safe. I really learned a lot.
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