Danie Bergstrom - Holistic Sexologist + Lesbian Sex Coach || Denver, Colorado + Online

create the deeper connection your relationship is craving

Introducing the Intimacy Foundations Framework—a cutting-edge approach designed specifically for lesbians and afab queers to create more vibrant, fulfilling sex and intimacy through multi-dimensional connection.

your dream sex life starts here

Let me guess:

Your growth mindset has helped you take control of your life—

You try your best to eat your vegetables, limit your screen time, and exercise. You know that you have the power to create the life you want. But you’re realizing your self growth journey has left out sex and intimacy.

You have all the determination to create a passionate sex life and positive relationship with your body, but just don’t know the exact steps to take to get there.

You’re aware of your intimacy struggles, but they keep repeating—

After all the personal development you’ve done- reading books, learning from accounts on instagram, talk therapy, you could write your thesis on your childhood trauma, attachment style and patterns.

Yet you’re frustrated that all that self awareness hasn’t translated to more pleasurable sex.

You’re doing the work to prioritize your relationship—

You’re scheduling date nights, making time for introspection, learning how to communicate, making sure you show gratitude for your partner, and you love them so much…but it still feels like you are disconnected sexually.

Let’s be honest, sex has taken a backseat. It may even feel embarrassing to bring this up because nobody wants to be in this situation.

Can you relate?

What if I told you creating the sex and intimacy that has you daydreaming at work didn’t have to be so… HARD?

Here’s the vision I have for you:

A relationship where intimacy isn’t just about sex, and sex happens without pressure- where you can have your cake and eat it too, as they say.

One where you no longer have to have blame-y conversations about your sex life, anxiously keep track of how many days have passed since the last time you did it, all the while worrying about initiating in a way that doesn’t feel like pressure in order make your sex life a priority, fuel your passion and playfulness, and feel ALIVE in your body and in your relationship(s).

this is the relationship that is possible when you create deeper connection.

You already have the capacity for deeper connection

(good news first)

The problem is that in one way or another, you’ve become disconnected you from your authentic intimate expression. (bad news)

And that makes a lot of sense!!!

But you don’t need to pull a ham string trying a weird sex position. You don’t need to try to be someone else’s idea of sexy. You don’t need more generic sex tips. (more good news)

You just need to learn how to connect deeper with your body, mind, and partner so that intimacy feels like the most natural thing in the world- because it is!

Once you understand these three pillars, you have the foundation to create the deep, connected sex and intimacy of your dreams for decades.

And that’s why the Intimacy Foundations Framework works.

The intimacy foundations framework

Relaxation

Experience more ease in your body and boost your libido by releasing built up emotions, stress or trauma from your body and nervous system. I do this gently and effectively with the Body Trust Process. Learn to read your body’s feedback so you know what you need moment to moment to create feelings of safety, relaxation and presence around intimacy.

CONNECT TO YOUR BODY

self discovery

Enjoy sex more by finding creative ways to work with shame that’s holding you back so you can discover your true turn ons, turn offs, and boundaries. Create more excitement and experience next level pleasure by learning all about your desires so you can create an outline to access your arousal whenever you want. I call this your Pleasure Pathway.

CONNECT TO YOUR MIND

relationship confidence

Feel ready for all aspects of intimate connection as we go beyond talking and actively practice relationship skills together. We co-create an authentic, therapeutic connection where you will master skills from emotional intimacy and navigating conflict to asking for what you want, the art of seduction and initiation in my cutting edge Full-Spectrum Communication Method.

CONNECT TO YOUR PARTNER

You’re already taking the first step to a thriving sex life by researching, but information has it’s limits. The next step is to take action.

Here’s what to do—

1. book An intimacy Check-up

We’ll talk about your biggest intimacy block, and if I think I can help, I’ll outline how the Intimacy Foundations Framework can help with your specific situation to create the sex and intimacy of your wildest dreams.

2. connect on every level

Develop the deep, multi- dimensional connection that creates the foundation for vibrant sex and fulfilling intimacy for as long as you want it.

3. have the best sex and intimacy of your life!

Take your new self knowledge, skills and confidence into the real world and experience the heights of pleasure and connection!

CLIENT WINS <3

CLIENT WINS <3

Let me introduce myself

I’m DAnie, lesbian sex coach & SEXOLOGIST all about multi -dimensional connection.

I was a self proclaimed self growth junkie, but after avoiding all things sex, I fianlly got fed up with feeling disconnected in my sex life.

So I went on an arduous hunt to get my hands on all the books, podcasts, and trainings so I could to educate myself about queer sex and love.

After exhausting myself from basic, heteronormative internet sex tips that didn’t address the unique challenges of lesbian relationships, I realized that if I wanted a more satisfying connection in the bedroom, it required deeper connection outside the bedroom.

Multi-dimensional connection- with my body, my mind and my partner was the key to a vibrant sex life.

That’s exactly why I created my Intimacy Foundations Framework.

Join me on my mission to create more queer joy through deeply connected sex and intimacy.